Help create a cozy and comfortable home
Secrets and Lies Dec 6, 2018
Don’t do this because it makes your husband happy. Do it because it makes you happy and makes the two of you actually want to spend time in your home together. It was the women in Denmark who taught me that this matters.
They buy deliciously scented candles and absurdly soft blankets and throw pillows by the sackful there. Let your husband take the lead once in a while. Men like to think they’re in charge. Throughout the course of my research, particularly in Chile,
I was told over and over again that men’s fragile egos demand a sense of control. Sometimes a wife needs to let her husband think he’s the one calling the shots — even though she’s influencing his behavior and decisions in more subtle ways.